Though others may neglect us, we should not think of ourselves as being without
value. We must not accept the judgment of others as the measure of our own
self-worth. Instead, we should live our lives in simplicity. Surely, we will
have flaws, but we must take stock in them according to our own judgment and
then use them as a measure of self-improvement. Since we need not expend energy
in putting on airs or maintaining a position, we are actually free to cultivate
the best parts of our personalities. Thus, to be considered useless is not a
reason for despair, but an opportunity. It is the chance to live without
interference and to express one's own individuality.
Deng Ming-Dao, "365 Tao - Daily Meditations", #25